Blue Torch Glass Dildo from eXtremeRestraints.com
I’m starting to get a nice collection of glass sex toys. Maybe I’m not a ‘good’ reviewer in the way that my reviews usually don’t pay too much attention to the little details like the manufacturer, or the case etc. I know that a lot of people really get very into the little details in thier reviews. Me? I have a pretty basic screening process:
Does it get me off? This covers size, shape, vibration.
Does it annoy me? This covers sound, smell, and feel.
Most other things I can deal with.
Glass is one of those things that I can’t use alone, but when combined with a vibrator, or a tongue… ohhh it’s perfect.
The weight, the temperature and the feel of glass is particularly erotic. Smooth and hard and heavy. This one I like because it’s got a base that I could display it. You know, if I had the kind of house where I could proudly display my phallic ornaments.
Blue Torch Glass Dildo from Extreme Restraints. I think I’d prefer to not have a pointy-ish tip, because I was a bit nervous to thrust with this one. When positioned right, with base pressed down so the head pushed against my g-spot and the row of nubs will slide, you know… it makes a nice line to my g-spot.
When I use glass, I have to find a softer vibrator. The hard plastic bullets work best, but if it hits the glass- that loud rrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrtrt just freaks me out and throws me off. Sometimes doing the double handed jerk off is hard when you’re stimulating both clit and g-spot. I use this. Seriously good vibrations, light weight and because it’s longer you don’t have to be all up in there, you know?
I usually start using the dildo on it’s own. Feeling the grooves allowing myself to warm up a bit. Then I add the vibrator. Usually when I’m close to having an orgasm, I don’t have to thrust, as much as just press and maybe move it back and forth just a little bit, and kind a fast. It feels a bit frantic and overwhelming- and good.
When with a partner, and glass. I can ALMOST squirt. Almost, I’m working on it.
Re: squirting. For us, it started when we were in a threesome with an old friend, and she could, and did, ejaculate while I was going down on her. I swallowed it easily — it had a slightly musky, slightly sweet taste, like wild mushroom, with just a hint of edge (after all, it flows from the urethra, so there can be a trace of urine).
When we started practicing, the key turned out to be total relaxation of all those muscles, which means the same ones that control the bladder. My mate had to be reassured that if she peed, it wouldn’t be a problem. So in the early going, while I was licking her, sometimes I got ejaculate and sometimes I got piss and sometimes a combination of the two. But after the first few tries, it’s been cum almost every time. Sometimes she can do it on command!
As you might guess, there is a D/s aspect to this, because (talk about “power exchange”) she has to truly abandon control. This is the reason I think more women don’t squirt — there’s the fear of peeing, something you’ve been telling your body not to do since you were a teenager.
The other thing is that it takes a partner who is completely OK with the possibility of consuming piss, because if he/she is even a little dubious, it’s hard to convey the sense of total acceptance this act needs. Finding that in a casual lover may not be as easy. But it’s worth working on. The sensation for both people is very hot. And while it’s not the same texture as semen, it does give a hetero guy the opportunity to drink from his lover as she drinks from him.
Its something that my girlfriends from http://www.muah.com talk about all the time; learning to do it, bragging that they can do it, etc. I feel like the only person in the world that it grosses out. I’ve had to tell girls that I’m with to NOT do it with me. I think it must be just because its so messy! (I’m a little too OCD!)