a little research on chastity belts
I did some reading on chastity devices. Of course you’re asking why… I don’t blame you.
As I was perusing Extreme Restraints website today I clicked on THIS. Then it got me to looking at other Chastity devices, belts or cages.
After taking note at how pretty (??) they were- my mind then went to the obvious question. What happens if he gets excited? Does that hurt? Does the discomfort simply stop it from going to far?? If you are wearing a belt or a cage, what if you have to go to the bathroom. Isn’t that messy?
I saw that many of the cages and belts have holes for bodily functions, but you know- that still can’t be good.
None of the sites that I looked at gave a lot of information or description on how those matters are dealth with. However, for me it did beg to ask the question: why? how? and for how long? Luckily I found many good articles on chastity belts and the history of them. There is a guy on twitter who seems to be in one often and doesn’t mind it. He apparently loves it. Interesting.
How would I feel if I could not touch my genitals? Not even apply pressure. Squeeze my legs together. I have to tell you, it causes me a lot of anxiety just thinking about it. My back is starting to ache and it is causing an actual pain in my cunt and my legs feel restless. Fuck, just thinking about it and I swear my heart is starting to race…
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ok I’m back. I’ll tell you that the though of that kind of depravation caused a lot of distress in me. Not the good kind. Not the sexually exciting kind that orgasm denial gives. I mean… it’s one thing to be able to play but not actually orgasm. However, something different to not even be able to touch. Yes, I think I’ve found my hard limit. I think that this would bypass erotic and go right to emotional panic.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you have any experience in this?? I’d love to hear your feedback.
I read this blog and it has a lot of really great information on chastity. Check it out if you want more information on it from the perspective of someone that enjoys it: http://aarkeybabble.blogspot.com/search/label/Chastity
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Since we’re talking about updates of archaic torture/punishment devices… have you ever seen a “won’t actually kill you or rip up your insides” version of a choke-pear? It basically works like an inflatable plug, except it opens like a flower to provide the desired level of stretchiness. I would think if any of my acquaintances have the connections to tell me if such a thing exists… *smile*
As for the subject of the entry… well, you know I’m a top, and chastity devices, to me, are less fun than forcing someone not to come. Plus, if my cock was in a cage and it got hard, that would NOT be the kind of pain I’m looking for on the occasions when I do switch.
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As it happens, I have a bit of experience in this area. I have a CB3000, and a newer CB6000. Yes, they can be a little painful to wear at first – especially at first because your body isn’t used to it.
The mindset for orgasm denial and chastity play is a little different than the mindset for a short term T&D scene, but the general idea is that (for the wearer) it’s fun to be aroused and looking forward to that sweet, sweet release. For those of us into doing this for a more extended period, though, that release is always “maybe tomorrow.” This adds an element of frustration that can be fun – or not – depending on how it’s approached.
We aren’t a femdom or FLR couple, Mrs. Edge and I simply enjoy the eroticism of extended denial (i.e., mine, not hers). We play and have a good time with it for a few weeks or a few months at a time, and then take a break. We seem to have started a new session (it’s not always clear when we do), because she’s been hinting that I shouldn’t expect to get out until at least August.
I write a bit about it over on my blog, of course, and I often answer questions for newbs and those with an interest.
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I apologize for the lack of proffesionalism in my response to this little blog, but I had to express my own personnal thoughts about chastity devices. These days we can all “enjoy” them as new-found sexual toys and some mild S/M role-play like sensations, but we mustn.t forget the origins and why such devices were created in the first place. Every day I thank the Goddess that I am alive in today’s free world without such barbaric and torture device being used commonly as an everyday device against the corruption of youth and the like. I am also happy though that some folks are able to move past the true meaning of such objects and be able to amuse themselves and enjoy these for pure sexual gratification; a perversion of the original design these “belts” stood for. Although it is by far NOT my cup of tea; I have a strong disturbed viewpoint about these devices mainly due to their original design as desexualising restraints which would not just physically and mentally torture the poor souls stuck in them, but also helped in distorting the human body to fit “someone” else’s “needs” and/or social (@ the time of course) restrictions. Some few interesting facts and other POVs on such chastity devices are slightly explored in the book “FETISH – Fashion, Sex, & Power” by Valerie Steele
Like Tom, I have a cb-3k and just got at cb-6000 – in it now actually. The cb-6000’s method for doing away with the hinge at the base of the cock ring has increased the comfort for me immensely.
Becoming aroused in the cb-3k was very painful, but not enough to ’stop it from going too far’ – it is enough to wake me from nocturnal erections though. Urination is not a big deal, the slots for expelling and cleaning are quite adequate for long term wear. I’ve been in the cb-3k for over a week and had no problems with general hygiene.
My partner and I play with tease and denial often and the cage adds to another dimension to that. Not being allowed to orgasm is more of a mental thing for me, but being caged and physically unable to touch my cock is a pretty powerful way of putting me in a submissive mind set.
All in all, it’s quite a rush and gets my heart going too
Cheers
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