Bad Bad Girl

after careful consideration….

I think this has been coming for a long time, but it’s something I need to do. It’s time to make some changes. Change the scenery. Take down all the decorations and put up something new. I am burnt out, over exposed and literally scratching the walls to keep it together.

So I’m going to make changes. Changes that will, I think, make me happy. Don’t panic, am I going away? No… well, not really. But sort of. A little bit. I guess I am not sure. However I know it starts with knowing that something has GOT to change. While I figure it out, I’m going to take a break. An internet break.

No blogging. (on any blog)

No HNT’s.

No Twitter. Less Twitter.

Nothing.

but quiet.

Well, not total quiet, because I have committed to do the toy reviews- so I will still be posting those. I just need to shut up for a while and just listen. All the time I spend online has made my life a bit confusing. I can’t explain it to people, and I can’t keep it a secret silent thing because one is very much a part of the other. I don’t know what will happen next- if a break is just what I need, or maybe I will take this blog in a different direction, into something else sex related. I’m not sure- but things in my life right now are about change and I need to start here.

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19 Responses to “after careful consideration….”

mina, on April 18th, 2009 at 9:51 am Said:

I understand you completely. I have taken a few of these breaks myself. It becomes very easy to get wrapped up in all of this online stuff. sometimes it gets carried away. sometimes it blurs the lines. Take care of you. I’m around if you need me.

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Vixen, on April 18th, 2009 at 9:53 am Said:

Sometimes this is exactly what one needs. And it’s much easier to figure out what needs to be changed when you take a step back.

xo sweetie….

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sage, on April 18th, 2009 at 10:00 am Said:

Well everyone needs to reflect from time to time.

We’ll be here when u get back.

sages last blog post..Ice Cream Party!
Coy Pink, on April 18th, 2009 at 10:46 am Said:

Take care of yourself. You deserve it. We’ll miss you, for sure, but will be here with open arms if/when you’re ready to play with us again.

((hugs))

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The Fury, on April 18th, 2009 at 10:59 am Said:

Take some time to relax and reflect, but please don’t leave for too long;-) You’ll be missed.
Tom Allen, on April 18th, 2009 at 12:45 pm Said:

:nods:
I understand. It’s hard enough writing a blog as consistently well as you’ve done, but when you factor in the other considerations, you can understand why so many of us burn out and close up shop after a short while.

We’ll be waiting for you when you get back. Stay well.

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Monkey, on April 18th, 2009 at 1:45 pm Said:

Take care of you. Come back when you are ready.

peace…

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Raven Quince, on April 18th, 2009 at 9:34 pm Said:

A break from the online world from time to time does the soul good. From what little I know through Twitter & this blog, it sounds like you’ve ad a helluva year. Rest up and take care.

Raven Quinces last blog post..Powerful Submission
cantstop, on April 19th, 2009 at 3:46 am Said:

Living parts of your personal life in public can be liberating as well as very taxing. I understand completely & wish you all the best.
Diva, on April 19th, 2009 at 5:15 am Said:

we’ve already talked about this but don’t forget that I am always here if you need me.

HUGS and good luck finding that peace sweetie.

Love you,
Diva
xoxo

Divas last blog post..It’s been one of those weeks…..
saintchick, on April 19th, 2009 at 9:59 am Said:

I am sooo weepy about this, but in the same thought happy for you. I completely understand about this change, it will also most likely feel like a burden is lifted.
Sweet thoughts sent you way … you will be missed
Greg & Sheryl, on April 19th, 2009 at 10:09 am Said:

You will be missed. We hope that you will someday return to your regular participation in the blogosphere, but we are looking forward to reading your reviews in the meantime.

Greg & Sheryls last blog post..Fast Facials
a_wild_1, on April 19th, 2009 at 10:23 am Said:

well I hope everything goes well and you find what it is you need you will be missed but some of the time a break is what we need to gather our thoughts and get back on track good luck
Coyote Too, on April 19th, 2009 at 10:35 am Said:

Time to think is good. Don’t forget you have friends when you need them. Be well.
Kyle, on April 19th, 2009 at 10:35 am Said:

I love you girl and want you to be happy. I hope you’re able to find your way to a happy, healthy relaxed place. Enjoy your break.

Kyles last blog post..Who’s going to SEAF?
Panthera Pardus, on April 19th, 2009 at 10:41 am Said:

Take your time. Everyone needs a break once in a while, and while we’ll miss you, you need to take care of you _first_.

Relax and breathe and come back refreshed.
Janie Blooms, on April 20th, 2009 at 5:13 pm Said:

you know, just now looking on twitter, i asked myself: where’s bbg? then i went to your blog and read what the deal was.

good luck with the break! i think it’s always a good idea to back off from all this online-y stuff once in a while. be well, my dear!

Janie
kdog, on April 20th, 2009 at 7:53 pm Said:

Be well baby. Come back only if it’s right for you.
Sara, on April 21st, 2009 at 4:03 pm Said:

Enjoy your break BBG, online things can definitely take over and blur things. I’m glad you’re doing what’s right for you right now. /hug