Vintage Slut- HNT
More photography awesomeness. The more I look at these picture, the more I am amazed by them. The less I see the stretchmarks and (at least) 5 year old baby weight.
One of my friends the other day, after asking me about the photoshoot asked to see the pictures. I showed them to her and her response was, “You know- I just don’t know how people think it’s attractive when you’re overweight like that. I just don’t like it at all. Not on you, or me, and anyone really.”
The thing is- if you like me, or you like bigger girls in general (and god bless the guys who like to bang the big girls) when I get undressed, you have to expect to see a big girl. I like big guys, when big guys get naked, I expect to see a big guy. Of course I would like to lose some weight and be healthier but I am not lying to myself about it. And really, what a total cunt thing to say huh??
I mean really… regardless of what the pictures show. I have never, ever EVER felt more sexy in my entire life than when I took these photos.
If you are wondering, they are vintage clothespins!
(used with permission from icantmove.com)
I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.
Happy Half Nekkid Thursday everyone. I fucking love you guys for loving me so much!!
-bbg
you go girl!
HHNT SEXY!
This:
I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.
Is the best thing I think I have ever read. You rock in such a serious way. You know what I think of these pictures. The photographer empowered you. You have an amazing amount of self confidence….which is *INSANELY* sexy.
XOXO
Do not let anyone tell you that you are not beautiful. You are.
Don’t think about her body issues. That’s her problem. Beauty comes from the inside, not the outside. If you feel sexy, then you’re sexy. If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not sexy.
I’ve always liked your pictures.
Happy HNT!
What a stupid thing to say. Feeling sexy is half of it–but you truly *are* sexy. *shakes head* I don’t understand some people. You look beautiful here.
Happy HNT!
WOW those are awesome!!!! Very sexy!!! I loved your post and your mindset!!! My honest opinion is that “confidence” is the main key to being beautiful and sexy… Happy HNT!
Hey, Doll,
I hope you bitch-slapped the chick that made the rotten comment. Man, I love the pics, and they remind me of a friend that’s coming over for some fun on Sun. afternoon. Same hair and bod, with stunning eyes.
Some people don’t realize how much a chick can rock in the sack, regardless of body shape. Their loss, my gain. Definitely.
Again, these are glorious photos (and vintage clothespins? Neat!). You’re a big woman, and you’re a damned sexy woman.
HHNT, xx Dee
It hurts me just a bit to see those pins. Sexy as hell on you, of course.
HHNT!
I applaud you for your attitude and for your courage in posting these photos. I’m a big girl. I know that I’m sexy. I don’t want for attention from men or from women. I don’t shy away when I’m face to face with someone. Knowing that if they’ve decided to get naked with me that they must be ok with what they’ll find under my clothes. But photos like yours? Putting it out there for the world? I don’t have that kind of courage. Beautifully done.
“I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.”
i love this line…its so powerful…
i am not into the bdsm thing…and this type of thing doesnt really appeal to me (the shackles/clothespins – not the actual pics of a big girl)…but the fact that you are empowered by the photos is fabulous…
you go girl…
peace…
You know, I struggle enough with my body – I’ll be damned if I need anyone reminding me of how imperfect I am! You are beautiful!!
Good on ya! I’m a big girl myself, so I fully understand where you’re coming from.
“And really, what a total cunt thing to say huh??” I 110% agree. I read what she said and I just thought ‘what a bitch’ and ‘You’ve got no idea what it’s like, do you love?’
Love ‘em or hate ‘em….big girls are here to stay.
For me there is no connection between pain and pleasure – pain is pain and I avoid it when I can. My main reaction to the pegs is “Ouch” but that is no reason to make disparaging remarks nor would I dream of doing so. As to body issues, if participating in HNT has taught me anything it is that being comfortable in your own body is much more important than worrying about what others might think about its imperfections. Happy HNT.
This is the first Ive ever commented but Ive been reading you for about a year.
I, too, am overweight. I hate what I see in the mirror and Im harder on myself then folks can ever imagine being on me. But for the first time in years, I finally am starting to like what I see in the mirror.
Screw your friends comment, she obviously doesnt like/love herself enough to embrace herself for who and what she is.
I am learning a great deal about pain and pleasure. Thank you for not hiding it all from us. You are a beautiful woman. Enjoy being that.
Simply gorgeous!
I’m not sure I would like that kind of pain. No, I take that back, I’m certain I wouldn’t. Ouch!
HHNT!
I only did one clothespin and even though it hurt it did feel very erotic after
Seriously, that’s all your friend could come up with? Not, ‘Oh wow, you’re so brave to go and do a photoshoot like that’, or ‘I am so happy that you feel at ease with yourself to do something like that’ or ‘Those pics truly rock! You look fabulous in those poses’ kinda comment. I thought a friend is supposed to look past things like weight and judge you by your actions, not appearance.
Once again, wonderful pics, BBG.
LadyP
Some friend! You’re right though: it doesn’t matter what she (or anyone else) thinks – as long as you feel sexy, that’s what really matters. And, as others have said, sexy comes from within.
Even so … OUCH!
I never say never but … OUCH!
Everything I was thinking, everything I wanted to say, has been said by all the others. This issue has been a particular struggle for me lately. A large man is simply handsome, or cute. We don’t separate his face from his body. A thin woman with lovely features is…Pretty. A large (or fat, fluffy, curvy, thick? WhatfuckingEVER) woman with those same features is a large, fat, fluffy…woman WITH A PRETTY FACE. Our faces, bodies, hearts, and brains together make us what we are. What you are is AWESOME. Guess I had something to say after all…:)
One night as we were lying in bed after what had been pretty damn good sex I was emboldened to ask my ex-husband whether he liked how I looked naked. As I was lying there in his arms he said ” Well you could stand to lose 20 or 30 lbs.”
One of the reasons he is the ex.
I do think the photos show how you were able to feel doing them.
I think the person who calls herself your ‘friend’ has some serious issues.
But at least now you know
Another big, bad girl here.
Hot HNT!
You’re gorgeous honey. Don’t let your friend’s insecurity or bad taste get to you.
That wasn’t a very tactful thing to say to someone who is supposed to be a friend. We wouldn’t say anything like that to even a stranger.
Just wow – I love the pictures.
Women like you, empower me. Curvaceous Dee is the reason I started playing HNT, and getting braver with the photos I take. Being comfortable with who I am, the way I look without my clothes on. I wish I were thinner but I’m not going to do anything about it, so…the choice is hate myself or love myself. I think loving myself is the healthier choice!
Yes – if you’re dating/fucking a big girl – expect to see big. You said it exactly right. You/we have more skin to touch – they have more skin to touch, stroke etc.
Gorgeous woman… god how I want more. Pure sex.
First, I wish I’d found this post days ago when it was posted – I’d have said something before now.
Second, you’re gorgeous. No ifs, ands or buts.
Third – I have body issues myself. It’s funny… I’ve had several cyber-lovers who’ve seen me naked and who have deemed me sexy. I never saw it, I only saw the imperfections, and there are plenty of those.
Then my lovers sent me pics and I realized I wasn’t dealing with centerfold cuties – and it didn’t, and doesn’t, matter. What made them sexy wasn’t the way they looked or even the way I imagined them looking.
What made them sexy was a sense of daring, a willingness to explore their sexuality, to push their limits – and having found them, to push them a bit more. It’s the same attitude I have, and that’s what made me sexy in their eyes, and in the eyes of others I’ve since met, and (I’m sure) in the eyes of those I’ve yet to meet. I don’t see a Playgirl centerfold, either, when I look in the mirror, but that doesn’t matter. The attitude is there, and it shows in little things – a wicked gleam in my eyes, or a sardonic twist of the lips. It’s there for those who can see, and for those who can’t – such a pity you can’t look beneath the surface.
Lovely pics of a lovely woman. Can’t wait for the next set.
I love you babe. Smoking hot!
These pictures are so beautiful. Your confidence is really inspiring.
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