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July 9th, 2008

Vintage Slut- HNT

More photography awesomeness. The more I look at these picture, the more I am amazed by them. The less I see the stretchmarks and (at least) 5 year old baby weight.

One of my friends the other day, after asking me about the photoshoot asked to see the pictures. I showed them to her and her response was, “You know- I just don’t know how people think it’s attractive when you’re overweight like that. I just don’t like it at all. Not on you, or me, and anyone really.”

The thing is- if you like me, or you like bigger girls in general (and god bless the guys who like to bang the big girls) when I get undressed, you have to expect to see a big girl. I like big guys, when big guys get naked, I expect to see a big guy. Of course I would like to lose some weight and be healthier but I am not lying to myself about it. And really, what a total cunt thing to say huh??

I mean really… regardless of what the pictures show. I have never, ever EVER felt more sexy in my entire life than when I took these photos.

If you are wondering, they are vintage clothespins!

(used with permission from icantmove.com)

I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.

Happy Half Nekkid Thursday everyone. I fucking love you guys for loving me so much!!

-bbg

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you go girl!

HHNT SEXY!

marcello said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:10 pm

This:
I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.

Is the best thing I think I have ever read. You rock in such a serious way. You know what I think of these pictures. The photographer empowered you. You have an amazing amount of self confidence….which is *INSANELY* sexy.

XOXO

Vixen said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:40 pm

Do not let anyone tell you that you are not beautiful. You are.

kdog said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:41 pm

Don’t think about her body issues. That’s her problem. Beauty comes from the inside, not the outside. If you feel sexy, then you’re sexy. If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not sexy.

I’ve always liked your pictures.
Happy HNT!

Kate said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:43 pm

What a stupid thing to say. Feeling sexy is half of it–but you truly *are* sexy. *shakes head* I don’t understand some people. You look beautiful here.

Happy HNT!

ms.inconspicuous said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:46 pm

WOW those are awesome!!!! Very sexy!!! I loved your post and your mindset!!! My honest opinion is that “confidence” is the main key to being beautiful and sexy… Happy HNT!

baby said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:48 pm

Hey, Doll,

I hope you bitch-slapped the chick that made the rotten comment. Man, I love the pics, and they remind me of a friend that’s coming over for some fun on Sun. afternoon. Same hair and bod, with stunning eyes.
Some people don’t realize how much a chick can rock in the sack, regardless of body shape. Their loss, my gain. Definitely.

Rocco said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:52 pm

Again, these are glorious photos (and vintage clothespins? Neat!). You’re a big woman, and you’re a damned sexy woman.

HHNT, xx Dee

Curvaceous Dee said in July 9th, 2008 at 8:59 pm

It hurts me just a bit to see those pins. Sexy as hell on you, of course.

HHNT!

Blissfully Wed said in July 9th, 2008 at 9:01 pm

I applaud you for your attitude and for your courage in posting these photos. I’m a big girl. I know that I’m sexy. I don’t want for attention from men or from women. I don’t shy away when I’m face to face with someone. Knowing that if they’ve decided to get naked with me that they must be ok with what they’ll find under my clothes. But photos like yours? Putting it out there for the world? I don’t have that kind of courage. Beautifully done.

Little Minx said in July 9th, 2008 at 9:41 pm

“I am hard enough on myself, I don’t need to carry the weight of someone else’s body issues.”

i love this line…its so powerful…

i am not into the bdsm thing…and this type of thing doesnt really appeal to me (the shackles/clothespins - not the actual pics of a big girl)…but the fact that you are empowered by the photos is fabulous…

you go girl…

peace…

Monkey said in July 9th, 2008 at 9:55 pm

You know, I struggle enough with my body - I’ll be damned if I need anyone reminding me of how imperfect I am! You are beautiful!!

Dana said in July 9th, 2008 at 10:20 pm

Good on ya! I’m a big girl myself, so I fully understand where you’re coming from.

“And really, what a total cunt thing to say huh??” I 110% agree. I read what she said and I just thought ‘what a bitch’ and ‘You’ve got no idea what it’s like, do you love?’

Love ‘em or hate ‘em….big girls are here to stay.

Lucy said in July 9th, 2008 at 11:14 pm

For me there is no connection between pain and pleasure - pain is pain and I avoid it when I can. My main reaction to the pegs is “Ouch” but that is no reason to make disparaging remarks nor would I dream of doing so. As to body issues, if participating in HNT has taught me anything it is that being comfortable in your own body is much more important than worrying about what others might think about its imperfections. Happy HNT.

lapis ruber said in July 10th, 2008 at 4:20 am

This is the first Ive ever commented but Ive been reading you for about a year.

I, too, am overweight. I hate what I see in the mirror and Im harder on myself then folks can ever imagine being on me. But for the first time in years, I finally am starting to like what I see in the mirror.

Screw your friends comment, she obviously doesnt like/love herself enough to embrace herself for who and what she is.

Theresa said in July 10th, 2008 at 5:54 am

I am learning a great deal about pain and pleasure. Thank you for not hiding it all from us. You are a beautiful woman. Enjoy being that.

ed said in July 10th, 2008 at 6:02 am

Simply gorgeous!

uwannawatch said in July 10th, 2008 at 6:17 am

I’m not sure I would like that kind of pain. No, I take that back, I’m certain I wouldn’t. Ouch!

HHNT!

Elisa said in July 10th, 2008 at 7:28 am

I only did one clothespin and even though it hurt it did feel very erotic after

annalouise said in July 10th, 2008 at 8:00 am

Seriously, that’s all your friend could come up with? Not, ‘Oh wow, you’re so brave to go and do a photoshoot like that’, or ‘I am so happy that you feel at ease with yourself to do something like that’ or ‘Those pics truly rock! You look fabulous in those poses’ kinda comment. I thought a friend is supposed to look past things like weight and judge you by your actions, not appearance.

Once again, wonderful pics, BBG.

LadyP

ladypandorah said in July 10th, 2008 at 8:22 am

Some friend! You’re right though: it doesn’t matter what she (or anyone else) thinks - as long as you feel sexy, that’s what really matters. And, as others have said, sexy comes from within.

Even so … OUCH!

I never say never but … OUCH!

Ro said in July 10th, 2008 at 8:44 am

Everything I was thinking, everything I wanted to say, has been said by all the others. This issue has been a particular struggle for me lately. A large man is simply handsome, or cute. We don’t separate his face from his body. A thin woman with lovely features is…Pretty. A large (or fat, fluffy, curvy, thick? WhatfuckingEVER) woman with those same features is a large, fat, fluffy…woman WITH A PRETTY FACE. Our faces, bodies, hearts, and brains together make us what we are. What you are is AWESOME. Guess I had something to say after all…:)

Lisa said in July 10th, 2008 at 9:42 am

One night as we were lying in bed after what had been pretty damn good sex I was emboldened to ask my ex-husband whether he liked how I looked naked. As I was lying there in his arms he said ” Well you could stand to lose 20 or 30 lbs.”

One of the reasons he is the ex.

I do think the photos show how you were able to feel doing them.

I think the person who calls herself your ‘friend’ has some serious issues.

But at least now you know

turnbaby said in July 10th, 2008 at 10:33 am

Another big, bad girl here. Hot HNT!

Bad Girl said in July 10th, 2008 at 11:59 am

You’re gorgeous honey. Don’t let your friend’s insecurity or bad taste get to you.

boo(duh) said in July 10th, 2008 at 2:25 pm

That wasn’t a very tactful thing to say to someone who is supposed to be a friend. We wouldn’t say anything like that to even a stranger.

Greg & Sheryl said in July 10th, 2008 at 3:05 pm

Just wow - I love the pictures.

Women like you, empower me. Curvaceous Dee is the reason I started playing HNT, and getting braver with the photos I take. Being comfortable with who I am, the way I look without my clothes on. I wish I were thinner but I’m not going to do anything about it, so…the choice is hate myself or love myself. I think loving myself is the healthier choice!

Yes - if you’re dating/fucking a big girl - expect to see big. You said it exactly right. You/we have more skin to touch - they have more skin to touch, stroke etc.

musns said in July 13th, 2008 at 5:55 am

Gorgeous woman… god how I want more. Pure sex.

Narrationbyd said in July 13th, 2008 at 6:48 pm

First, I wish I’d found this post days ago when it was posted - I’d have said something before now.

Second, you’re gorgeous. No ifs, ands or buts.

Third - I have body issues myself. It’s funny… I’ve had several cyber-lovers who’ve seen me naked and who have deemed me sexy. I never saw it, I only saw the imperfections, and there are plenty of those.

Then my lovers sent me pics and I realized I wasn’t dealing with centerfold cuties - and it didn’t, and doesn’t, matter. What made them sexy wasn’t the way they looked or even the way I imagined them looking.

What made them sexy was a sense of daring, a willingness to explore their sexuality, to push their limits - and having found them, to push them a bit more. It’s the same attitude I have, and that’s what made me sexy in their eyes, and in the eyes of others I’ve since met, and (I’m sure) in the eyes of those I’ve yet to meet. I don’t see a Playgirl centerfold, either, when I look in the mirror, but that doesn’t matter. The attitude is there, and it shows in little things - a wicked gleam in my eyes, or a sardonic twist of the lips. It’s there for those who can see, and for those who can’t - such a pity you can’t look beneath the surface.

Lovely pics of a lovely woman. Can’t wait for the next set.

Magnus said in July 14th, 2008 at 7:02 pm

I love you babe. Smoking hot!

Rae said in July 16th, 2008 at 6:33 pm

These pictures are so beautiful. Your confidence is really inspiring.

Courtney said in July 17th, 2008 at 9:04 am

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