Bad Bad Girl

I’ll ruin your life, You just won’t care.

December 24th, 2007

Bloggin blues

I’m bored. I’m bored with blogging. I find myself uninteresting lately and I’m considering ditching the whole thing, at least for a little while. I’ve got two blogs and if you read both, you may have some insight to what my life is like. I like blogging when I have something interesting to say, but I’m starting to feel un-interesting and for all I try to add to these blogs- I am just unmotivated to do it. Maybe I will chuck the two I have, and start one new one that is really about me and has a bit of everything. I do enjoy the writing. I enjoy the adventures, definitely. But my life is changing and this blog does not really fit into it anymore.

My relationship with Z, and the end of that relationship has changed me somewhat.

The relationship with The Ex, seems to be coming to a reluctant reconciliation- and this blog- and the life I’ve lived in his absence, I know- he would not understand. Maybe I will hang around for HNT, and the occasional daily meme- but I feel like I want to hang my bloggin hat for a while. I’ve felt this way for a while.

I am running out of things to say.

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hmmm, I personally don’t think you should leave. but you need to do what will make you happier.

however let it be known that as you might not feel like you have much to say, you represent a lot of people who would like to say more and don’t.. or live vicariously through what you say..

either way. hope to see and hear more of you soon.

your audience.

krist said in December 24th, 2007 at 6:11 pm

BBG,
Gee and just when I had decided to leave everything and move West! Damn, figures! OK enough of the jokes. I very much enjoy your blogging but I do indeed feel at times WTF? why am I doing this? Don’t I have enough going on in my REAL life. I will miss you greatly, more that you can imagine if you choose to not blog but only you can decide it this is the right thing for you at this time in YOUR life. I wish you nothing but what you seek. Please contact me if there is anything I can do.

ATLLG said in December 24th, 2007 at 7:04 pm

Well, I think a break doesn’t hurt anyone. We all need a chance to step back and regenerate. And if you come back for HNTs, then we’ll know you’re still alive! Do what you need to do, but I echo the other sentiments here…

osbasso said in December 24th, 2007 at 7:24 pm

To one’s own-self be true… follow your gut instinct.

That’s what’s nice about blog-land, you can start over fresh when you need to.

Don’t go away though, we’ll miss you!

Scintillio said in December 24th, 2007 at 8:43 pm

It may seem as though you have run out of things to say, but you never know what the new year will bring. You seem like a very creative woman to me and I’ve always enjoyed your blog. Rest up, stop searching, and I bet something new and different will come to you and you’ll share it with all of us.

Dirty Debbie said in December 24th, 2007 at 9:47 pm

I get like that sometimes, a couple of times I nearly deleted my blog, but I come back to it eventually.

You’ve gotta do what is right for you, but it would be a shame to use you.

Mister Gently said in December 24th, 2007 at 11:01 pm

You would most certainly be missed.
I’d read anything you write, and love reading about you~~in every way.

BBG…You’ve got a lot to say; and, yes, you always say it well. There’s a piece of everyone in your writing; there’s so much we can relate to. That is what makes your many aspects so special.

You are a very giving person.
What you do is your decision, alone.
I trust whatever you decide.

I’ll be at any blog you write.

Stay the course. There are many who love you!

xx,Will. Merry Christmas, from Long Island!

will69b said in December 25th, 2007 at 2:42 am

maybe take a break, I am guessing you have a bit of seasonal holiday blah…be well though either way

The Fellatio Artist and The Geek said in December 25th, 2007 at 4:25 am

The holidays can magnify a lot of issues. You have been a true joy to read. Not to mention the smile that comes across my face with each and every photo. I hope this not the end by a temporary pause. You are in our thoughts!

Kannon7 said in December 25th, 2007 at 7:23 pm

BG, you’re blog is triggering thoughts of the ex and/or relationships you’ve had. Like they said, do what you want, but remember you don’t have to prove anything to anybody. I’ve finally figured that out with My own blog.

Rocco said in December 27th, 2007 at 2:38 am

I understand what you are going through. I think it’s common. I personally would miss you and your blog. I hope you continue to stay around. I esp love your posts involving Lacey.
xo